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Child Abuse and Neglect: What is it, its effects and causes Part 2 of a series You know that you want and need to report child abuse and neglect when you see a child suffering, but what do you look for and what evidence will you need to provide when making a report? Exactly what is child abuse and neglect? Definition of neglect: Failure to provide for a child's basic needs. Neglect may be: Physical (e.g., failure to provide necessary food or shelter, or lack of appropriate supervision) Medical (e.g., failure to provide necessary medical or mental health treatment) Educational (e.g., failure to educate a child or attend to special education needs) Emotional (e.g., inattention to a child's emotional needs, failure to provide psychological care, or permitting the child to use alcohol or other drugs) These situations do not always mean a child is neglected. Sometimes cultural values, the standards of care in the community, and poverty may be contributing factors, indicating the family is in need of information or assistance. When a family fails to use information and resources, and the child's health or safety is at risk, then child welfare intervention may be required. Some signs of neglect would be: 1. Unsuitable clothing for weather 2. Dirty or unbathed 3. Extreme hunger 4. Apparent lack of supervision Definition of physical abuse: physical injury (ranging from minor bruises to severe fractures or death) as a result of punching, beating, kicking, biting, shaking, throwing, stabbing, choking, hitting (with a hand, stick, strap, or other object), burning, or otherwise harming a child. Such injury is considered abuse regardless of whether the caretaker intended to hurt the child. Signs of physical abuse: 1. Unexplained burns, cuts, bruises, or welts in the shape of an object 2. Bite marks 3. Anti-social behavior 4. Problems in school 5. Fear of adults Definition of sexual abuse: activities by a parent or caretaker such as fondling a child's genitals, penetration, incest, rape, sodomy, indecent exposure, and exploitation through prostitution or the production of pornographic materials. The following behaviors are indications the child is being sexually exploited: 1. Inappropriate interest or knowledge of sexual acts 2. Nightmares and bed wetting 3. Drastic changes in appetite 4. Overcompliance or excessive aggression 5. Fear of a particular person or family member Definition of emotional abuse: a pattern of behavior that impairs a child's emotional development or sense of self-worth. This may include constant criticism, threats, or rejection, as well as withholding love, support, or guidance. Emotional abuse is often difficult to prove and, therefore, child protection services may not be able to intervene without evidence of harm to the child. Emotional abuse is aljost always present when other types of neglect or abuse are identified. Signs a child is being emotionally abused: 1. Apathy 2. Depression 3. Hostility or stress 4. Lack of concentration 5. Eating disorders Now that you know the definitions and signs to look for, will you make that report when it is needed? A lot of people do not make reports when they are aware or even present when a child is being neglected or abused. In the horrible case of Brianna Lopez recounted on this site, her own mother and grandmother were aware of the abuse when it was happening and did nothing to stop it. They even denied it later until forced to tell the truth by the evidence of her fatal injuries. Why? Some people think the abuse is not as bad as it really is, and that they can protect the child. They may not want outsiders to come to the home for some reason, thinking this will cause trouble. The abuser may be the only one in the household who works and there is a fear of loss of income if they are jailed. If the abuser is violent to the child(ren), there is jost likely domestic abuse also and there is a fear of further violence. These reasons are understandable but when a child's life and welfare are at stake, only one choice should be made. The adult has the ability to leave, get a job or protect themselves, but the child does not. He or she may be depending on you to help save their life.
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